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moonpilot · 12th December 2012, 17:43

Just wondering if theres any about?

Geiroth · 12th December 2012, 18:05

Stop what you're doing, right now! Seriously! Do not watch a sex ed video. Do not read up on tips and tricks for pleasing women. Do not build up your expectations. Do not overthink it.

You aren't supposed to be a sexual casanova your first time, or the second, or the third. Just let her know it's your first time and she'll understand. She probably won't care about an orgasm the first time you sleep together. Hell, if you're anything like me you probably won't even come yourself the first time (I think that only happened to me the third or fourth time, and only barely).

You're supposed to fumble, stumble and make mistakes. It's part of the charm. When you start to feel comfortable with the basics (which may take a few attempts), you can start trying to look up a few tricks. Just don't put the pressure on yourself before you're completely comfortable with her, yourself, and the situation in general. The pressure is only going to do one thing: Ruin the experience for you, and possibly for her.

In short: Relax, be honest, and have a good time. We've all been there. I think the majority of people out there find their first time to be disappointing (though I'm equally sure most won't admit it), which is sort of a part of the charm in hindsight. Don't try to be something you don't have to be. Yet.

alexora · 12th December 2012, 18:24

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Originally Posted by Geiroth

n short: Relax, be honest, and have a good time. We've all been there. I think the majority of people out there find their first time to be disappointing (though I'm equally sure most won't admit it), which is sort of a part of the charm in hindsight. Don't try to be something you don't have to be. Yet.

Also, if and when the moment comes (clothes off), tell her the truth: you've been saving yourself for the perfect girl and she is it...

Don't be shy to ask her what she likes, and to let her know what you want in bed.
I wish you the very best.

invokation · 12th December 2012, 18:31

Relax. Take your time. Take more time. Don't hurry. Make it last.

Curvy_Kate · 12th December 2012, 20:44

Oh lordy, I just had this talk with a 21-old kid in chatroom (don't ask...). Twenty-one. A virgin. He has learnt about sex from internet porn and has a head full of the circus tricks and positions you see on videos which don't do anything to anyone except for the person jerking off in front of their monitor. Has no concept of what sex is emotionally, what is its purpose (except for the obvious) but sees it as something like a video game, where you score points and climb levels. A short talk revealed this was a rather shy, lonely kid, who has troubles even talking to girls without blushing and yet porn tells him that sex is all about humiliating a girl and that anal sex is the absolute minimum to be expected (not saying there's something wrong with anal, only that there is in such attitude). You hear that that's how kids these days are, but I honestly didn't imagine such tragic lack of imagination... On the other hand, how would they know the difference if that's all they know? I mean, I saw porn when I was a kid, but we didn't have easy access to it, so I still learnt about sex mostly through personal experience (the sex-ed books aside).
When you start having sex, start with the basics, you need to learn what feels good and what is meh, what you feel comfortable with, what she's comfortable with, how your body reacts... As a female, I can tell you that your girl is probably even more nervous and that it's not gonna matter whether you're experienced or not. Try to relax and act naturally rather than trying to impress her - that will relax her also and she'll feel safer in the new situation and with you, that's really important. Take your time, as everyone else said. It's gonna be clumsy and awkward, yeah, but you'll remember it tenderly. Don't be tempted to get Dutch courage, alcohol or drugs will ruin your experience. It'll be OK, humans have been doing this for centuries.

alexora · 12th December 2012, 20:59

+1 for what CK has to say.

Sex is about intimacy: it isn't a rodeo. You have nothing to prove, just try as best you can to be yourself and be open to the other person: don't project your expectations onto her, or indeed onto yourself.

Reclaimed - P01 · 12th December 2012, 22:31

My first time lasted about 60 seconds and was a utterly miserable experience. Not because it lasted 60 seconds, but because of who it was with. More than anything else about the experience that is what I would change.

The first time will probably suck unless the person you are with is special to you. If you have that going for you then don't waste it by trying to emulate a porn or sex guide. Instead be open and honest with her and see where that goes. If she is still willing then just make sure you pay attention to her needs first.

Porn is about fantasy and it's best to leave it that way imo.

alexora · 12th December 2012, 22:45

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Originally Posted by Perish01

My first time lasted about 60 seconds and was a utterly miserable experience. Not because it lasted 60 seconds, but because of who it was with. More than anything else about the experience that is what I would change.

The first time will probably suck unless the person you are with is special to you. If you have that going for you then don't waste it by trying to emulate a porn or sex guide. Instead be open and honest with her and see where that goes. If she is still willing then just make sure you pay attention to her needs first.

Porn is about fantasy and it's best to leave it that way imo.

My first time also averaged that time. But since I was 13 years old, I was able to repeat the feat plenty of times withing a few hours: at the end I lasted a great deal longer...

If I now had sex with that frequency, I would be dead before the end...

Curvy_Kate · 12th December 2012, 23:03

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Originally Posted by Perish01

Porn is about fantasy and it's best to leave it that way imo.

Too bad the generation raised on porn doesn't seem to understand that...

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The first time will probably suck unless the person you are with is special to you. If you have that going for you then don't waste it by trying to emulate a porn or sex guide. Instead be open and honest with her and see where that goes. If she is still willing then just make sure you pay attention to her needs first.

Absolutely, but while I agree that on the first time it's far more important WHO you have sex with than WHAT you're doing, I don't think he should try to pressurize the girl into having mindblowing orgasms, it probably won't happen, for many reasons and none of them having anything to do with his good will or attentiveness. If she's also inexperienced, she's going to be too nervous and distracted for that. Making her feel safe, accepted and cared for is more important. The first time I climaxed with a guy I actually felt embarrassed!

Coffee & Porn · 12th December 2012, 23:25

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Originally Posted by Geiroth

Stop what you're doing, right now! Seriously! Do not watch a sex ed video. Do not read up on tips and tricks for pleasing women. Do not build up your expectations. Do not overthink it.

Wow! Great advise from everyone and nothing rude or negative! As far as watching porn to get advise,don't! Me personally, was told by a girl to stop fucking her like we were in a porn. Every girl is different, get to know her, what she likes and what she doesn't like. Be honest! Nothing wrong with being a virgin everyone was one at sometime in their life. I know a girl who is 23 and still a virgin,she's date alot of D-bags who wanted one thing but she wasn't going to give it up to someone who was gonna bang her and dump her.

In short, don't put too much pressure on yourself.

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Geiroth Registered User Addicted Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Somewhere up north. Posts: 402 Thanks: 664 Thanked 3,229 Times in 386 Posts	Stop what you're doing, right now! Seriously! Do not watch a sex ed video. Do not read up on tips and tricks for pleasing women. Do not build up your expectations. Do not overthink it. You aren't supposed to be a sexual casanova your first time, or the second, or the third. Just let her know it's your first time and she'll understand. She probably won't care about an orgasm the first time you sleep together. Hell, if you're anything like me you probably won't even come yourself the first time (I think that only happened to me the third or fourth time, and only barely). You're supposed to fumble, stumble and make mistakes. It's part of the charm. When you start to feel comfortable with the basics (which may take a few attempts), you can start trying to look up a few tricks. Just don't put the pressure on yourself before you're completely comfortable with her, yourself, and the situation in general. The pressure is only going to do one thing: Ruin the experience for you, and possibly for her. In short: Relax, be honest, and have a good time. We've all been there. I think the majority of people out there find their first time to be disappointing (though I'm equally sure most won't admit it), which is sort of a part of the charm in hindsight. Don't try to be something you don't have to be. Yet. __________________ My Collection Threads: Anal Only - Cumshot Collections - Nuns

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invokation Junior Member Novice Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: S3duc3d Posts: 50 Thanks: 464 Thanked 148 Times in 42 Posts	Relax. Take your time. Take more time. Don't hurry. Make it last.

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Curvy_Kate Registered User Addicted Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 194 Thanks: 215 Thanked 600 Times in 174 Posts	Oh lordy, I just had this talk with a 21-old kid in chatroom (don't ask...). Twenty-one. A virgin. He has learnt about sex from internet porn and has a head full of the circus tricks and positions you see on videos which don't do anything to anyone except for the person jerking off in front of their monitor. Has no concept of what sex is emotionally, what is its purpose (except for the obvious) but sees it as something like a video game, where you score points and climb levels. A short talk revealed this was a rather shy, lonely kid, who has troubles even talking to girls without blushing and yet porn tells him that sex is all about humiliating a girl and that anal sex is the absolute minimum to be expected (not saying there's something wrong with anal, only that there is in such attitude). You hear that that's how kids these days are, but I honestly didn't imagine such tragic lack of imagination... On the other hand, how would they know the difference if that's all they know? I mean, I saw porn when I was a kid, but we didn't have easy access to it, so I still learnt about sex mostly through personal experience (the sex-ed books aside). When you start having sex, start with the basics, you need to learn what feels good and what is meh, what you feel comfortable with, what she's comfortable with, how your body reacts... As a female, I can tell you that your girl is probably even more nervous and that it's not gonna matter whether you're experienced or not. Try to relax and act naturally rather than trying to impress her - that will relax her also and she'll feel safer in the new situation and with you, that's really important. Take your time, as everyone else said. It's gonna be clumsy and awkward, yeah, but you'll remember it tenderly. Don't be tempted to get Dutch courage, alcohol or drugs will ruin your experience. It'll be OK, humans have been doing this for centuries.

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Reclaimed - P01 Registered User Addicted Join Date: Sep 2011 Posts: 743 Thanks: 9,462 Thanked 2,710 Times in 663 Posts	My first time lasted about 60 seconds and was a utterly miserable experience. Not because it lasted 60 seconds, but because of who it was with. More than anything else about the experience that is what I would change. The first time will probably suck unless the person you are with is special to you. If you have that going for you then don't waste it by trying to emulate a porn or sex guide. Instead be open and honest with her and see where that goes. If she is still willing then just make sure you pay attention to her needs first. Porn is about fantasy and it's best to leave it that way imo.