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4th July 2013, 06:00 | #1 |
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are you embarrassed by your porn "habit"?
& i mean in the outside world, not in the privacy of ur home or online?
i ask this because of certain responses in the "do you talk about porn with your friends?" thread. i cant be the only one who thinks if its not a humorous topic, then at least its nothing to be embarrassed about. i mean a lot of things like this kinda confuse me. (apologize for off topic yet midly relevant statement) but people seem very self conscious about every little thing. like theres some sort of onus on people to either be perfect, mentally, physically, socially. i could say more in relation to human beings & the introduction of "shame" into human thinking. i still havent figured out how or why but notice no animals share this debilitating trait. as nobody is perfect, i dont understand y everyone pretends rather than be honest with themselves. i think person to person relationships would improve if not for this kinda thing. but more on topic do you all think theres anything to be embarrassed about in watching porn? |
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4th July 2013, 06:08 | #2 |
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That which is not completely accepted by the rest of society is what makes us embarrassed. For most people; guys like Howard Stern can be exceptions. Here, this joke kinda says it.
A Scottish old timer in Scotland, in a bar, talking to a young man. The Old Man says, "Lad, look out there to the field. Do ya see that fence? Look how well it's built. I built that fence stone by stone with me own two hands. I piled it for months." "But do they call me McGreggor-the-Fence-Builder? Nooo..." Then the old man gestured at the bar. "Look here at the bar. Do ya see how smooth and just it is? I planed that surface down by me own achin' back. I carved that wood with me own hard labour, for eight days." "But do they call me McGreggor-the-Bar-builder? Nooo..." Then the old man points out the window. "Eh, Laddy, look out to sea...Do ya see that pier that stretches out as far as the eye can see? I built that pier with the sweat off me back. I nailed it board by board." "But do they call me McGreggor-the-Pier-Builder? Nooo..." Then the old man looks around nervously, trying to make sure no one is paying attention. "But ya fuck one goat..." My "habit" doesn't so much embarrass me, but I'm sure not gonna talk about it like baseball scores. |
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i genuinely assume concepts like god & the writings in the bible stem heavily from the more intellectual of us deciding to lay down the law with fear for what we cant know like the afterlife for example. how else could we keep theories like survival of fittest from turning into pure anarchy with the strongest killing & raping whomever they wanted without establishing a fear for what they cannot know. now obviously thats not a fact mearly a theory of mine. (& i apologize for bring up religion as its not appropriate in settings that arent clearly labeled for it) but i do actually feel comfortable talking about anything including porn with most anyone unless the situation is actually specifically opposed to that. |
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4th July 2013, 06:36 | #4 |
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I have no reason to pretend to be a fine upstanding citizen, I'm not in a relationship, I look like a tattooed hooligan-- of course I'm not ashamed of my porn. People would probably think it strange if I were ashamed.
It's just one of those things I live out in the open about. Hell, the other day, I was just talking to my boss and a client about Adrenalynn's 'One Ring To Rule Them All' tattoo around her asshole. But I am a tattoo artist, so it kind of makes sense in context. |
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Embarrased?
Nope. Lust and orgasm is a gift. Felt good. But I don't talk to others about it in real life Talking with a female (when she brought it up)...sure But careful in choosing my words...let her take the lead. Don't want to sound that I am hitting on her or behaving like a pervert.
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I'm not embarrassed by it myself, however, it depends on the situation. For the most part, most men look at porn. Some more than others. I've downloaded enough to look like I have a problem, but that is only because I like to collect a lot of scenes. Most of them have rarely been watched twice.
The problem is, as stated in the other thread, it can be used against you morally. Just as minor mental illness (anxiety, depression) is looked at in society as unacceptable and weak, porn is looked at as taboo and morally aberrant. In legal cases porn is used to "justify" a defendant's maladjusted character, thus contributing to a negative perception of said defendant. Such exposure also humiliates the family and friends of the accused. Porn is an unspoken yet ubiquitous element in the world. Society realizes this, but views porn as a violation of the sanctity of healthy relationships, such as marriage. Same goes for prostitution and adultery. I would be prefer to keep such material private, but I'm not ashamed if that's what you wanna know. |
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4th July 2013, 07:07 | #7 |
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Some of my friends know i like to watch porn, I never tried to hide it, i dont feel the need to tell the world that i do like to watch porn but i'm far from getting embaressed from watching it.
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Thanks for asking and spear-heading this thread. I'm a torn person in many ways. There are two reasons that made me join this forum:
1) getting more & better porn 2) sort of looking for "pornoholic anonymous" Communicating about this and gathering other peoples thoughts about this helps me...I dunno...make up my own mind I guess. I enjoy porn as much as I do cigarettes, fatty food and other things that should be taken in modest amounts. I tend to overindulge and have escapist traits. Life is so fucked up and unfulfilling, so why not get the most joy out of my time here as possible...On the other hand there are more productive ways to pass time. As you might notice -> torn. I haven't even gotten to mention the many good reasons why porn, the way we know it, is disgusting and shouldn't be supported. I think I do consider this a vice that I succumb to, but am trained well enough to embrace the bliss of ignorance. On the other hand there is nothing wrong with appreciating the beauty of women and the pleasures of lust.
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Masturbation and porn are only problematic if they get in the way of your doing productive things that would make your life fulfilling. The same could be said about eating, or about drinking booze, or even watching TV. Your life should be meaningful and rewarding, and if it's not, then there are countless ways of making it so. |
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