I was ok until she drew attention to them

[DXM]

[Curvy_Kate]

Originally Posted by linkmail2

She seems to think the whole guys-n-boobs thing is funny, but that doesn't stop her from showing them off a bit.

Well, it is funny and there are academic papers written on the possible roots of it (from fooling men into thinking the woman with big boobs would be a more able mother to replacing the butt-cheek view that other apes use to tantalize each other with, to women responding to having their breasts fondled with oxytocine release and thus forming a stronger bond with the man doing it - this theory doesn't hold water as far as I'm concerned) and scientists can't reach a satisfying agreement (why can't we just accept that boobs are fun, period? ) and it is kinda cute, actually, but it becomes annoying when we become just this thing that the boobs are attached to, before everything else. On the other hand, women objectify men alright too, so I'm not pointing any fingers.

[linkmail2]

Originally Posted by Curvy_Kate

On the other hand, women objectify men alright too, so I'm not pointing any fingers.

That's part of what's most maddening. She's smart and funny and a very good coworker AND she has huge boobs! How's a primitive male supposed to cope with all of that?!?

[linkmail2]

Originally Posted by Curvy_Kate

women responding to having their breasts fondled with oxytocine release and thus forming a stronger bond with the man doing it)

Wait a minute... Does that mean that if you fondle your own breasts, you form a stronger bond with yourself?

Science is awesome!

[thruster315]

Originally Posted by Curvy_Kate

On the other hand, women objectify men alright too, so I'm not pointing any fingers.

It just goes to show you that we've all got some pretty good eyesight.

[Wallingford]

So, two months have passed. How is this situation progressing?

[linkmail2]

LOL. Continuing as before, I'm happy to report. And with the warmer months upon us her attire has moved toward skirts and airy summer dresses, usually with sandals.

She's still every bit as well-favored as before, dammit. Her recent trick, when I stand to talk to her over the cube-wall, is to lean a bit forward with her elbows together on the desk, so...

Nothing will ever happen between us for a host of reasons, but I make it a point to talk to her over the cube-wall several times a day.

[thruster315]

Originally Posted by linkmail2

LOL. Continuing as before, I'm happy to report. And with the warmer months upon us her attire has moved toward skirts and airy summer dresses, usually with sandals.

She's still every bit as well-favored as before, dammit. Her recent trick, when I stand to talk to her over the cube-wall, is to lean a bit forward with her elbows together on the desk, so...

Nothing will ever happen between us for a host of reasons, but I make it a point to talk to her over the cube-wall several times a day.

I would just consider this situation your "corner office". It's a perk of the job. Think of it as a fringe benefit. You've got a better view than most people that work in cube farms. Enjoy every moment of this.