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Both the hobbyists and the providers have issues with intimacy. Many of the men on the site were very bitter (raked over the coals in a divorce) or just sad and lonely (like myself). They just wanted to have physical fun and bypass all the emotional stuff. Understandable if you heard some of their stories. The women also had intimacy and trust issues but they came in 2 classes. The professionals and the desperate amateurs. The pros were always highly-rated. They enjoyed their job much of the time. They treated it like a profession and their interactions with others were professional. Most of the pros knew it wasn't a long-term career, but a means to an end of a financial goal they wanted (education, home, money for a business, etc). The desperate amateurs? They hated it. They were flakey and unreliable. Drugs, disconnected from or toxic family relationships, etc. They didn't have other options and they didn't plan for any future. As for me? Basically for all the fun I was having banging hot women half my age, I came to the realization that I wasn't any less lonely. My venture into the hobby was a result of a relationship going horribly south (discovered my fiancee at the time was an alcoholic). After awhile, the hobby got old and I gave it up and started dating. Met my wife and remarried and we lived happily ever after. Not quite, but close enough. Relationships take care and feeding...so it was a bit of a transition from paying for my interactions with women vs actually working on a relationship. It's why we dated for 4 years before we married. I've never had any association with sex and intimacy. I was promiscuous long before I started paying for it (especially when I was a younger man). The game was fun for me. Picking up a stranger and having NSA sex with a stranger was hot for me. Sex is just fucking to me. It's only better because I'm fucking someone I love and I'm in an intimate relationship with her. That doesn't mean I couldn't enjoy fucking someone else now. I most definitely could and the temptation springs up every now and then. I just won't because I'm married and I love and value my relationship with my wife. |
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21st June 2017, 01:59 | #1172 | |
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Any kind of human relationship, no matter what you want to put in, based on someone asking money to spend time with somebody else is biased and twisted from the beginning, and can't be authentic. It can't work. I'm sure all your one night stands wouldn't have the same savor if you had to make a research to find a professional, contact her, wait for her response , go at her hotel, pay her and fuck a disinterested girl, no matter how little commitment you want to give. The magic of one night stands precisely resides in the fluidity and genuineness of the moment. I can't imagine having "fun", with someone who, as I read once a Hooker say, is "totally disconnecting" herself "as soon as the guy enter the room" and whose "mind is going on Mars". And not only don't I think my position is "old-fashioned", but I think that's how most men are and have always envisioned sex. That's in the human nature. Most people are looking for more than just "lust". Ask pornstars themselves , and they'll tell you that their personal sexual life has nothing to do with what they doing on films and that they're looking for sharing, exchanges, emotions... And for most mongers "I don't pay them for sex, I pay them to leave" is just something they're kidding themselves with... |
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21st June 2017, 03:28 | #1173 | |
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When I was a young man the thrill was in the chase. It was exciting to be able to charm a woman into your bed. When I was in my early 40's and down on relationships and dating, I just wanted to bypass the BS and get laid (and I didn't get fat and ugly all of a sudden). I fully understood what I was doing in terms of intimacy avoidance. I needed that time to sort through things without the hassle of having a girlfriend....because at that time of my life, it would have been a hassle. |
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21st June 2017, 11:26 | #1174 | |
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As I said, I understand what can lead some people to do it (even if it's much more complicated than just "intimacy avoidance") but it's just not for ME (and a lot of people). Going at a determined place, at a determined date and hour, to do determined sexual acts with a professional, just to get laid... Not everybody is controling the "urge" the same way, obviously. But pride, romantism... put it in whatever you want, sex, no matter the motivations, can't work like that for a lot of people. And there's always "NO FAP". It can be very inspiring... |
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I can sort of see the appeal of having sex with a famous name, but for me it would have to be someone other than a porn star - maybe Karen Gillan (ex Doctor Who) but I'd guess we'd be talking at least a million to have any chance of that!
I'm sure it's the same the world over, but here in the UK there are specialist escorts available for a couple of hundred pounds though who will perform pretty much any service known to man. That includes collections of uniforms and outfits to suit all tastes, and roleplay skills more than capable of recreating anybody you want to create. The good ones - and they really are good - can turn themselves into pretty much anybody you want them to be, any age you want them to be, any nationality you want them to be, real or fictional. I used one just outside London last year and she actually had a menu book listing all the roles she could play, and that included the outfits, the hair and even the voice (she's an occasional actress, unsurprisingly, but the money's not good enough). So I had 30 very happy minutes fucking Avril Lavigne (she didn't do Karen Gillan!) but it could just as well have been one of several other actresses and singers. Or for that matter a Disney princess or one of several other fictional characters she did. Incredible repertoire (and wardrobe!). I don't have the sort of money needed to fuck a pornstar, but I can get pretty damn close to it for a fraction of the price! |
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Timea Bella is escorting. She has worked at a brothel and recently for an agency in Switzerland.
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According to her recent Twitter account, she has passed her Bachelor degree (Pharmacy) ... I had no idea that she is into escorting. |
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23rd June 2017, 21:42 | #1178 |
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Apparently, she has been doing it for a while. There are posts on the Woodman forum that show she was doing it at least as far back as early 2015. Timea even responded and admitted to it.
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You'll hardly find a hooker, or even a camer, nowadays who hasn't 3 Phds, is owning 2 businesses and is not doing this for the money but because she likes it...
I don't know about this one, but saying that you are a student or have a degree is most of the times, just another way, and just like those ridiculous profiles, to make yourself look good and try to hook the "upscale gentlemen" looking for more than just an empty pornwhore. Look at escorts agencies, or camers profiles. They all have a degree, are students or have nice jobs... But again,I don't know about this one. |
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