Anal sex , your experiences and knowledge.
 

Alright i ll get straight to the point.I love anal sex , i only had anal sex several times with one girl in my lifetime and that girl i was with a lot of time so it doable.


Now i know like all of you that there can't be anal sex like in porn(rare hygiene accidents, no condoms thanks to enemas , etc).

But what troubles me lately is this.
Anal sex for some of us is something extremely erotic so i hate that it's so situational and misunderstood.

I want your thoughts and experiences.
Is it possible for example to have anal sex with a woman the first time you two have sex?Even more odd , is it possible in one night stands?

If so what about the hygiene issues , you would somehow overcome with a long term relationship?(enemas etc.)

So is spontaneous anal sex just a fantasy ?

One of my friend's sisters hooked up with some guy at a party once but he didn't have a condom so she told him to fuck her in the ass (I guess STD's weren't really a concern for her, she just didn't want to get pregnant).

Honestly, with the accessibility of the internet, people at younger and younger ages are having access to porn. And with anal sex so common in porn, nowadays, teens growing up are going to think that anal sex is normal (not that I disagree :) ). So I definitely think the "taboo" of anal sex is going away and more and more girls will become open to it.

I'm 61 and in my younger days anal sex was hardly ever mentioned.

Porn was hardly avaialbel except on 8mm film so you needed a projector.

We never spoke about it, and you had to sneak a look at sex manual books to see anything about it.

I like to watch it on porn, but i don't think it is good that younger kids see it as normal. I mean there are hygiene and disease problems.

But then in my day getting a girl to give you a blow job was a real score. But nowadays it seems to be like shaking hands and all the girls are doing it.

Find a healthy chick who likes anal?

I wouldnt do anal ONS, especially one whos been drinking for the past 4 hours. Also it still is taboo and you wouldnt want a chick crying rape when she realises that her butthole hurts in the morning and she feels bad about it.

Anal sex isn't a taboo anymore. I like it and I know some more girls who like it. Maybe lesbian girls are more "into it" but straight girls aren't shocked too if you ask them. I didn't heard about accidents, problems or that kind of stuff... I can't imagine that people are too silly to clean themselves.... but men should be careful if it's the first time. That's the most important rule.

Thank you. I agree, it isn't a taboo anymore and I knew some girls/women who really liked it.

But I think men should always be careful, unless their female partner is really used to it.

I've never had anal sex in real life and don't think I'd like it. But for porn, I love it. Its one of those things I think (for me) is better to keep as a fantasy than to really do.

I agree with anal sex not being a taboo anymore.
I've had anal sex quite easily. And what I have noticed, the younger and younger like to do it or at least try it.
Once again I recommend to lick girls asshole while doing cunnilingus. Try to penetrate it with your tongue and get girl used to the idea. Then you could try to rub her ass with lubricated finger still licking her snatch (and ass). Then you can insert the finger and continue licking.
Give her an orgasm or a couple and it's much easier to suggest putting your dick in her butthole. Butthole gets more relaxed after orgasm and it's more flexible.

Hygiene isn't really a problem. You can always drag the girl to a shower.
I used to lure casual chicks to shower with me cause I love to lick female butt (my girlfriend loves that too:p). Your eyes and nose can tell a lot. When you pick up a strange girl,
you should be able to judge her hygiene quite easily when you get closer to her. Basically, avoid dirty looking and sweat smelling skanks.
You wouldn't eat rotten meat, would you?
When encountering with new partner, use condom.
And of course, lots of spit and lube:)
Spontaneous anal sex isn't just fantasy. Some girls are really into it.
Even perverted guy like me can confuse when 18 year old girl comes and says: "Would you come with me and fuck me in the ass?"
Or when I have said jokingly in the bar:"I'd love to lick your asshole and fuck you all night" and it worked. ;)
Finland is great place to fuck around.

Ground rule: Be sure it's OK with your partner.
For me it's been always a "bonus" and not the whole thing.
If I don't get it, I deal with it. Simple as that.

Sometimes anal sex could be messy...:eek:
But porn flicks teach us there's nothing but clean and already lubed asses, so you can just drop your pants and showe your cock in it.

Never had anal sex with a girl, honestly. Part of me wants to try it, and the other part of me is just afraid of being shit on. The whole question of if an anus can be clean, and the nastiness that goes into cleaning/bleaching just turns me off. I don't know. It's alright in porn, but that's really as far as it goes for me as of right now.

I've had anal sex twice with the same girl.

The first time was a new experience for both of us. I was careful and slow, but it just seemed like a lot of work to make sure there was enough lube and I wasn't hurting her (and I hate the feeling of condoms).

The second time we tried to let loose and get more into it, and I ended up hurting her and feeling very guilty about it. After that she never wanted to try it again. And neither have I.

It's very overrated, IMO. You have a perfectly good vagina like an inch away.